I found some blond p-ub-ic hairs in my hub's underwear be4 doing laundry. How can I talk to him

We are both very dark haired.

A week later, we're foo-l-ing around, and he smells like he's been having sex down there. I'm suspicious now. What other situations have u girls been in w/ somthing like this?

I found some blond p-ub-ic hairs in my hub's underwear be4 doing laundry. How can I talk to him about this?

Tell him to have his mistress shave - like get w/ the program these days. Hair is out.

I found some blond p-ub-ic hairs in my hub's underwear be4 doing laundry. How can I talk to him about this?

Hey is your butt really like a biscuit?

I found some blond p-ub-ic hairs in my hub's underwear be4 doing laundry. How can I talk to him about this?

The best thing is to be upfront, tell him exactly what you found.

I know it sucks, sorry you have to go through that, btu hopefully its nothing.

I found some blond p-ub-ic hairs in my hub's underwear be4 doing laundry. How can I talk to him about this?

wow thats crazy if you really love him and dont trust his word try going to get him get a lie detector test done its $600

I found some blond p-ub-ic hairs in my hub's underwear be4 doing laundry. How can I talk to him about this?

Call him out on it

I found some blond p-ub-ic hairs in my hub's underwear be4 doing laundry. How can I talk to him about this?

Don't say anything to him about it. Look for other signs. If there are other signs, then catch him in the act. It is the only way you will ever find closure to this situation.

I found some blond p-ub-ic hairs in my hub's underwear be4 doing laundry. How can I talk to him about this?

Welp, maybe he finds biscuit-butts less attractive than the blonde he is banging.

I found some blond p-ub-ic hairs in my hub's underwear be4 doing laundry. How can I talk to him about this?

WWWWWWWWWWWWWWWow!

I don't think there's an easy way. You could present the underwear with the pubic hair in it to him, and calmly wait for him to answer. Be calm, but watch his eyes and his mannerisms. You'll either learn the truth, or he'll get an academy award for best actor.

Good luck.

Maybe there IS a logical explanation - although I can't think of one just now.

Maybe he got a lapdance or something - has there been a big office celebration or a wedding recently?

I found some blond p-ub-ic hairs in my hub's underwear be4 doing laundry. How can I talk to him about this?

ya just confront him about it! if he was then i suggest u make sure the other woman knows that he is married...and just tlk to him and be honest about ur suspitions....sp???

I found some blond p-ub-ic hairs in my hub's underwear be4 doing laundry. How can I talk to him about this?

Did they taste like anyone you know?

I found some blond p-ub-ic hairs in my hub's underwear be4 doing laundry. How can I talk to him about this?

Why would you be inspecting his underwear for crying-out-loud.

I found some blond p-ub-ic hairs in my hub's underwear be4 doing laundry. How can I talk to him about this?

You shouldn't be worried about talking to him, you should be thinking of how life is going to be without him. What a jerk.... Obviously you think something is up. CALL CHEATERS!!

I found some blond p-ub-ic hairs in my hub's underwear be4 doing laundry. How can I talk to him about this?

God love you. I would have been all over him by now. You've got to confront him with this. I can only imagine what sort of explanation you're going to get.

When I had reason to believe my ex was out having his own private party I just sat across from him and stared. Stared and stared and stared. Didn't say a word for like ever. He started squirming and getting nervous. I'm like well, want to tell me up front what the hell is going on? He fessed up without me having to accuse him. It only got worse from there. Good luck to you.

I found some blond p-ub-ic hairs in my hub's underwear be4 doing laundry. How can I talk to him about this?

I'm not c-ert-ain what you should do about the p-ub-ic hairs, but you definitely have a way with the hyphens.

I found some blond p-ub-ic hairs in my hub's underwear be4 doing laundry. How can I talk to him about this?

i think you should just bring it up and tell him that u found the blonde pubic hairs and were wondering what was going on. you obvissly aren't giving im what he want sso see what it is that he wants from you and then give it to him. Hope you find out good lucj

I found some blond p-ub-ic hairs in my hub's underwear be4 doing laundry. How can I talk to him about this?

I would talk to him and tell him how you feel. Give him the benefit of the doubt. Before you jump to conclusions. Look for the signs of a man cheating before you point fingers, remember when your point the finger at him three are point back at you. So have all the basis covered.

As for the sex smell, and hair. The hair would be the least of my concern, as he may have sit down on the toilet in a unisex bathroom.. But the smell, yep that is a big clue. But sit back and take not of his actions and time he spends away, cell phone, etc. Do surprise visits to work, you might be surprised at what you see !! Best of luck to you and I hope all ends well for you both :)

I found some blond p-ub-ic hairs in my hub's underwear be4 doing laundry. How can I talk to him about this?

Ask him what he's been doing, don't be scared to ask him that I mean all the evidence leads up he's been doing something fishy ( no pun intended).

I found some blond p-ub-ic hairs in my hub's underwear be4 doing laundry. How can I talk to him about this?

hey i had a friend in a similar situatn...she hired some detectors or $900 and well...he was a cheat!...i dont hope the same for u... but its better than confronting him coz u might not b able to trust every word of his n might end up making a fool outta yrself...

I found some blond p-ub-ic hairs in my hub's underwear be4 doing laundry. How can I talk to him about this?

Just flat out ask him.....why worry about it...

I found some blond p-ub-ic hairs in my hub's underwear be4 doing laundry. How can I talk to him about this?

think about this for just a minute....do you use bleach in your laundry? do you think its possible that its his own hair or yours that got caught up there?

I found some blond p-ub-ic hairs in my hub's underwear be4 doing laundry. How can I talk to him about this?

It sounds like he's having an affair. There are no other explanations I can come up with for these things. You need to sit him down, tell him what you've seen and smelled, and ask him if he's having an affair. You've been married to him, you should be able to tell when he's lying. If he is lying, don't perpetuate the hurt by lying to yourself.

If he's fooling around, whether he admits it or not, and it doesn't stop, you need to leave. It is bad for your self esteem, and for any children you have (you don't say whether you do or not) to allow infidelity to continue. It is also bad for your health. Who knows what kind of a woman she is, who else she is having sex with, whether he's using a condom . . . Don't subject yourself to AIDS, hepatitis C, and ten thousand other diseases by staying with a man who sleeps around.

Good luck. You'll get through it, however it turns out.

I found some blond p-ub-ic hairs in my hub's underwear be4 doing laundry. How can I talk to him about this?

look him in the eyes and ask him, read his eyes, they don't lie.

I found some blond p-ub-ic hairs in my hub's underwear be4 doing laundry. How can I talk to him about this?

confront him about it. . . .most likely he'll say its nothing and make up some excuse, but GO WITH YOUR INSTINCT! Most of the time when a woman senses something like that, she's right, and not only do u sense that he's cheating, but you have proof! Oh and maybe you should go get tested, cuz you don't kno if he caught something from that other girl. . .Good luck!

I found some blond p-ub-ic hairs in my hub's underwear be4 doing laundry. How can I talk to him about this?

How about sitting down with him and telling him that you know that he is cheating on you and than watch him turn white like a ghost! After that he will deny and than you give him the evidence which he will end up making some kinda excuse etc.... this is how it will mostly go and than its your call how you want to handle it after that!

See right now you can do 2 things either to not say a word and let it be the way it is, meaning you know he is sleeping around but you don't say anything.

Or you get on your feet and demand an honest answer cuz you do not deserve to be cheated on.

In the end it will come down to either you want to still live with a him give him another chance to improve himself or you prefer to leave!

I found some blond p-ub-ic hairs in my hub's underwear be4 doing laundry. How can I talk to him about this?

you nead to leave that scumbag and find some one that wont cheat on you I know it is hard but all you have to do is look there are still good men out there all youm have to do is look

I found some blond p-ub-ic hairs in my hub's underwear be4 doing laundry. How can I talk to him about this?

well... i would put the underwear WITH THE pubic hairs still intact into a baggy. i would HIRE A PRIVATE DETECTIVE. you can do it quite inexpensively. when i hired one it was $250 for a retainer and $75. per hour. if your husband's cheating it shouldn't cost you much more than one days work for the detective. the best detectives are retired state police DETECTIVES. look for one of those. if you get the PROOF you will take him to the cleaners if you decide to get a divorce.

I found some blond p-ub-ic hairs in my hub's underwear be4 doing laundry. How can I talk to him about this?

I am a man but I can tell you if you find something "out of place" then he is cheating on you and you need to confront his sorry *** and if he lies....LEAVE him...Give him alone time to find out what or who he wants most...Don't feel bad about yourself..Its not your fault hes a sleaze bag....Sounds like you are trying to take care of his sexual needs and being a good wife....Keep your chin up and don't take any crap!!!! It takes two to make a marriage...Good luck...GeneO